why modern couples are ditching the one day wedding (And why you should to)
Why settle for the best day of your life when you could have the best weekend of your life? ✨
Listen, we know weddings aren’t cheap, but if your wedding guests are flying in from all over for your big day, why not make the most of it and turn it into an experience they’ll never forget? That’s exactly why more couples are turning their weddings into full-blown experiences instead of just a single day. Think: welcome parties, recovery brunches, poolside rosé-fueled cabana parties—the whole vibe.
Gone are the days when the wedding weekend was just for destination brides. Now, even local weddings are getting the multi-day treatment. Why? Because couples want more quality time with their people, and honestly, who wouldn’t want to stretch out the best weekend of their life?
What’s Changing?
The rehearsal dinner? It’s not necessarily just for immediate family and the bridal party anymore. Some couples are opening it up to all guests for a more inclusive, laid-back pre-wedding hang.
The after-party? It’s getting just as much planning and attention as the wedding reception these days—with outfit changes, late-night bites, live entertainment and a whole different vibe.
The next-day event? Whether it’s a pool party, farewell brunch, or group spa day, couples are making sure the celebration doesn’t just stop when the DJ plays the last song at the after party.
How to Host a Wedding Weekend Like That Bride
Make Every Event Feel Different. The vibe of your welcome party should not be the same as the vibe for your wedding day or your rehearsal dinner. Switch it up! (Think: different color palettes, involve a theme, live entertainment moments etc.)
Don’t Over-Schedule. Your wedding guests will appreciate an itinerary, but they’ll also need downtime to recharge between all the festivities. A jam-packed weekend with no room to just chill will leave everyone feeling rushed and stressed—not exactly the vibe you're going for. Let them have time to relax and actually enjoy the weekend!
Set the Tone Early. Give your guests the heads-up on the weekend plans ahead of time—so they know what they’re signing up for, get the full scoop on the dress code for each event, and know exactly what to pack for your epic weekend!
Hire a Planner or Assign a Point Person. If you don’t want to be bombarded with “What time does brunch start?” texts, make sure someone else is running the show for your wedding weekend AKA the question answering queen.
Moral of the story? A one-day wedding is still magical, but a whole wedding experience is next-level. Brides today aren’t just planning a party—they’re creating a full-on moment. And honestly, if you’re going to go all out, you might as well do it right. Plus, you only get one wedding weekend in your entire life—make it count!
Happy Wedding Planning!
Xx
THE MODERN BRIDE GUIDE 💋
